Showing posts with label Gender Equality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gender Equality. Show all posts

Friday, 12 July 2013

The men we seek...

Chivas regal points out how gentlemen ought to be, in their 'Live with chivalry' campaign.

Okay, so most of us are depressed at the current situation with the male category of our race (you know, with the intimidating, raping and murdering, amongst the larger problems we face from them). But you all will be glad to know that the world is not, in fact, completely overcome by this sort. We all know how empty vessels make most noise. You see, that is the problem - The ideal men, such as we seek (kind, sensitive, just) do exist; however, they are under-represented. Of course you will never find the nice men bragging about how amazing their sort can be. They just are, and their niceness is them, not a heroic act that they deem the need to parade around. It does seem like they are a few in number. Sadly, there are no statistics that I know of, and hence cannot judge. Maybe they are in a large number, saving the world from utmost chaos, or maybe they are struggling for existence, but carrying on their work in the shadows, like the superheroes that they soon will be considered, if the other sort dominates.  Instead, I choose to be optimistic and assume that there are nicer men around and that someday there will be an uprising amongst the males of our species and they will overthrow the horrible sort that causes us to feel the need to constantly be agitated and defensive. Yes, and then we all will hold hands and walk into the sunset, to live happily ever after. I know that isn't happening (Sigh). Yet. This is probably why I appreciate the good men out there, and hope and vow to propagate the same amongst other men. Every time a stranger holds the door open for me, I try not seeming obviously surprised, or remotely suspicious; instead, I thank them, genuinely. I usually mean to thank them for their existence, and the blessing that the factors responsible for their nature are to the planet. But that I leave unsaid, so as not to seem like a crazy person. I have met such men, and a lot of the despicable sorts. It is probably human nature that the impact of bad things stays on longer, and we tend to remember the bad things done to us better. But do not let your hopes down, for hope is all we have. I simply try to enjoy the company of the nice men around me, who treat all women as equals, and promise myself to inculcate the same unto every impressionable boy I can influence.


In a nutshell, what I mean to say is this – there are good men out there, and we need to appreciate them for not being the awful men in the news, and so, we ought to stop generalizing men. Maybe there still is hope for mankind?